Dunbrody
Last Tuesday was my final day at the Dunbrody, and I was almost done for the day when Aunt Carol, Lily, and Jane (my next door neighbor) walked in for a tour. I was so excited to give them the tour because I was going to to do most of it by myself, with some help from my superior Jason of course. When finished the tour, we went upstairs to have our tea (dinner). I enjoyed my favorite meal from the cafe; California spring roll, and brown soda bread, which is the best soda bread ever. As Lily and I were enjoying a piece of celebratory chocolate cake, Sean Connick, the Dunbrody manager came over and said that he was very pleased with my work and has a small presentation down stairs. So, when we did come down the stairs, Jason, Frank and Peter, the three people who were at the Dunbrody the most while I worked there were standing around and one by one said what they appreciated about my work. I was so shocked that they all had very different and nice things to say. All I could say was “thank you” over and over again. And then they all professionally shook my hand, and Sean Connick offered me a selection from the jewelry stands. I looked them all over and found a celtic cross necklace that I asked Peter about, “It used to have Bible verses and kind of acted like a tour guide,” before he finished I made up my mind and asked for the cross. I couldn’t have asked for a more interesting and fun place to spend my work experience.
Camogie
My camogie team held what I thought to be a mandatory meeting, but was something more. When I arrived all of the girls on my team were standing around in the club house, and the coaches were all talking. I was having a chat with my friend Laura who was in the other transition year class, when her mom, Yvonne came over with an H&M bag and said, “Well we all know that Aoife is leaving us and we’d like to just give her a little goodbye gift.” She handed me a blue sweatshirt out of the bag as well as a bright green envelope, and I hugged her with a “thank you.” When I opened up the sweatshirt, it had the team’s colors, but on the back it had my name embroidered! It was so unique and I know that I’ll be wearing it nonstop. Then we were all ushered to some seats where I sat in the middle holding my new jumper up and the team and coaches surrounding me. A man came over with a professional camera and snapped our picture for the local paper, then more and more people wanted the picture on their phones. After, we all stood around talking, but then I noticed Aunt Carol writing something down, and when I came over to thank the coaches, she said that she had written a bit about my experience. I just thought that it would be in the sports section, but no, there was going to be an article about my experience! It was truly very thoughtful and I appreciated it so much that I was going to be able to share my trip.
School
At school, we had an open night where parents could come and view our projects and we would also receive certificates for everything we’ve participated, in as well as a certificate from our classmates. In the day, we had to set up each class’s table and stay after school as well. We also had to turn in a page about our greatest achievement of the year. During one class, Ms. Pilkinton was checking each of our certificates to make sure she had everyone for every project they did. It took along time, and I was one of the last people so I actually began to fall asleep, as I was sitting in the back and covered by people standing. When Ms. P called my name, I shot up and stood as fast as I could, a little shaken. She didn’t have to go through many activities as I had missed half the year. However, when she finished, she started saying that she didn’t receive as many “My Greatest Achievements” as she had hoped, but received one that really stood out and really summed up Transition Year, and she was wondering if I could read mine out. It took me a minute to put two and two together, but I then realized that my paper was the one she was referring too. I took my page from Ms. P which was laminated now which meant more than I expected it to. I started slow because I really didn’t want to mess up, even though I knew I was already red in the face. My paper, titled “Trying New Things” left a couple people in tears and everyone was clapping when I finished. I really didn’t mean to have that type of reaction, or for my paper to be inspirational or anything but I guess when I wrote about my experience, it was shocking to people how much it changed me and affected me. Then Ms. P asked me if I would like to read my paper at the end of the night. I agreed, but I was a little nervous because I didn’t really want my paper to sound like a pity party for myself to some people, but I was also reluctant to be more apart of the night.
After school, my friend Niamh and I finished setting up tables. Then for dinner we ordered take out and while others ordered Chinese, we ordered pizza, because no offense to Ireland, but the Chinese food sucks. So when our food arrived, we met the other girls in the class room, and while we started to eat, my friend Aoife (yes I know), began pulling our crisps, soda, and jellies. Then my other friend Cloe plugged her iPhone into the speakers. I didn’t think twice about all of this, I just thought we were going to celebrate the end of the year, but then Aoife turns to me and says, “Aoife, this is your going away party.” I honestly was so happy I just jumped up and hugged her, she then told me that it was from the whole class, soI turned around and said “Thank you, thank you!” I was just really touched that people I had just met 5 months ago were now my friends and felt the need to give me a good send off. Cloe then turned on some “disco music” and we all danced for a good hour, and we jumped up and down so much that the floor boards actually started to bounce!
We accidentally lost track of time that when it was just 30 min to the open night, we were still having a party and when Ms. P told us it was time to get going. We all began running around, throwing our jumpers back on, fixing our hair, scurrying up and down the stairs and hallways carrying projects around and chairs to bring them to the hall for presentations. The open night started with our skits from YSI, and a slideshow, and the a break to look at our projects with our families. Lily and Aunt Carol were really impressed with all of our hard work, as was I when I saw all the amazing things people in my class accomplished before I came. Some people also found humor when they read my ‘Irish Slang Dictionary’ which was basically a guide to understanding people from Ireland, once you get past the accent. After the break, the certificate ceremony started. Before the student went up for her certs, Ms. P talked al little bit about the girl, and we all clapped and cheered for everyone that went up. It was really thoughtful how everyone had a different introduction from Ms. P, showing she really paid attention to the girls, and funny how everyone had a different cheer, some people even had a chant. Before I went up, Ms. P said that they’ve had a lot of international exchange students but I’ve fit in the best, something I was very proud to hear. Then when she said my name, she couldn’t pronounce my last name, and everyone said it really loudly all together which made me laugh because it’s the exact opposite in Orinda, everyone can’t pronounce “Aoife.” I stood up and walked up stage and I could cheering and clapping which was really nice to hear but when I turned around, my whole class was on their feet clapping for me. They didn’t do that to anyone else, just me. I have never received a standing ovation, that’s something you see when someone has performed in a play as a character or when someone practiced a music piece over and over. But a standing ovation for just being you? I don’t think I’ll ever get that kind of support again. I had to turn around because I knew that if I looked at them I would just burst in tears. Ms. P said that she was impressed by how well I had fit in and that I was a very strong student as well. She then announced that my class gave me a “Certificate of Irish Slang.” My certificate book was much thinner than everyone else’s, but I didn’t mind, also my last name was spelled wrong, which was kind of funny and I didn’t say anything because it was just like when Ms. P couldn’t pronounce it. As I was going down the stairs again, I just had to say “This school is so nice to me!” When I sat back down, I hugged Aoife and just looked around saying “Thank you” to everyone I made eye contact with. After the certificate ceremony was over, the whole teaching staff gave two people an award for the best student all around, which was given to an Aoife in the other class and Aoife (not me) in our class, which was really well deserved because Aoife also got the “Mammy of the Class” certificate earlier which she really is, very caring and makes sure there is peace, and she also is a very good student. Then, Ms. P finally asked me to come up to read my paper saying that it really summed up Transition Year. I was really shaking now but I got up anyways and read my paper very carefully;
“My Greatest Achievement: Trying New Things
In the short time that I have been in Transition Year, I have learned to always try new things. At the start the year I was a little hesitant to come to Ireland and wasn’t sure if I had made the right choice to leave the comfort of my own home, town, my friends, my family, my school, basically everything that I was familiar with. Not only would I have to leave everything behind, I would also have to try and make new friends, go to a new school, and get accustomed to a whole new life. I was very scared and worried but I told myself that I just have to keep moving forward, don’t stop to think, because if I did, I would think of a million reasons why not to go on this great opportunity. And I’m glad I didn’t think about it, because now that I have been on this new journey, I know that I have such a broader life experience than I had when I left. Also, I would have never have known if I would’ve liked my trip so much if I never went. So, now, with every new thing, I just think, “If you don’t try it, you’ll never know.” And because of that saying, I have tried new foods, expanding my palate to a variety of delicious recipes; I’ve tried camogie, a sport that I just found out about last year and now really enjoy it and it has gotten me interested in a different kind of sport; I’ve tried working as a tour guide for the Dunbrody Famine Ship which has shown me that I know more than I think I know and that I just have to be confident in what I do in order to achieve greatness; I’ve tried to speak Irish, a language that confuses me but once I started piecing small phrases and words together I am now able to comprehend some of a normal conversation in Irish. I believe that my greatest achievement this year was learning to try new things without hesitation, and I will carry this view with me so that I will never fear the unknown, because if you don’t try, you might be missing out on an opportunity of a lifetime.”
I finished with thanking the teachers, but especially the girls who included me right away as if I had known them for years. At first, silence, then everyone stood up once again, clapping and cheering. Then, Michaela, Ellen, Niamh, and Aoife all came up on stage and handed me a little gift wrapped box, and an envelope that was really thick. Now, I had tears. I just hugged all four of them and thanked the rest of the class because the whole of them had given it to me. I came down the stairs, wiping my tears and hanging on to Aoife who was also tearing up. I hadn’t even opened up the gift, just the fact that they had given me one made me cry. The card seemed normal at first with some animals on the front saying “You’re leaving?!” but when I opened it up, it folded about 4 times and everyone had written a little blurb to me, each one being very thoughtful and personal. The small box had a necklace with a little celtic knot on it inside. It was so perfect it was unreal because they remembered that I don’t like really big, flashy jewelry and it was also a knot that showed how tight we all were.
On Friday, our last day, Ms.P came in with two cakes that was bought by the staff, for which I thought was for the whole class. But then I realied that Ms.P was staring right at me and that the cakes in fact for my going away. I was a little surprised but very thankful that I had also made a connection with the teachers. Our class spent the rest of the day eating the leftover jellies and cake and watching movies, as well as remembering all the fun times we had, a really nice way to end the year.
I have to say, it’s really pleasing to see that I have made such an impact in the places that I’ve been apart of. I am really proud of myself for stepping out of my comfort zone and to receive this kind of feedback was just so overwhelming and showed me that whatever you give, you’re really going to get back.
















